Motherhood is overwhelming, period. It doesn’t matter if you have one child, or four (or more), if you’re a working mom or stay at home mom – being in charge of other people’s lives (as well as your own) can be an insurmountable task. Does it need to be so stressful? Absolutely not! With some organisational tweaks here and there, as well as some inner work along the way – motherhood can be simple.
Today, more than ever – simplicity may seem out of reach. We are raised to believe that busy is best and this is hugely ingrained in our minds and being. It is common – almost celebrated – to have a busy, stressful job that sees you working 40+ hours a week. Taking work home, answering emails on your phone and always being ‘on’ is expected. And children aren’t exempt to this either. After school activities, homework, sports, music, languages and the list goes on. We are busy, busy, busy. All the time.
On the contrary, the thought of working only 3 days a week, or our kids not participating in 5 different extra-curricular activities can leave us feeling like we aren’t doing ‘enough’. We aren’t ‘keeping up’. At what point did this happen? At what point did life get so over complicated and so intense?
What if I told you that living more simply, doesn’t mean you don’t partake in life? It doesn’t mean saying no to everything and living the life of a hermit. Instead, it means rediscovering our values, what fires us up each day – and putting those at the forefront of our life.
Making the decision to simplify your life is a holistic one. It’s near impossible to simplify one area, without having a flow on affect to the rest of your lifestyle. You may have preconceived ideas that simple living means saying no to everything and living life as a hermit. While it is more than just getting rid of your things or clearing out your calendar, it doesn’t mean forgoing fun and adventure. Instead, it’s really looking at your life and diving in to rediscover your values, what fires you up each day – and putting those at the forefront of your life.
Simple living takes the brave step of deciding: I want more than my to-do list, I want more than being busy and distracted. I want more: calm, time, space, love, relationship – what ever speaks to your soul.
There are so many ways to get started on a more simple life. And so many different aspects that we can incorporate in our life – not all will resonate with you, so you need to tune out the white noise and read, listen and research to find out what will work for you – what will create more space in your life to relax, enjoy and be present.
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In all honesty, money has been an issue much of my adult life. You really aren’t taught about finances at high school (well, we weren’t in the early 2000’s anyway) and then when you hit University the banks come out with these “amazing deals”. Interest free overdraft and a credit card. Of course you get them – and then you spend it until before you know it, the interest free period it up and you suddenly owe a ton more money!
As a ‘proper’ adult now (haha, what even is that!) I definitely look back at my younger years and think ‘wtf’ I definitely could have saved money and what not. But I lived, and I had fun. I partied and I travelled. So that’s a positive!
However, since having kids and a brand new perspective on finances – I’ve really come to understand that we don’t need to be a slave to our finances. Much of our habits today are from years of consumer conditioning – being exposed to all the adverts of what we need to buy. More often than not, we work more so we can afford all of the things (the nice things at that). And it becomes a loop – of busy, stressful work, and shopping. But never actually having time to enjoy the things we’ve purchased.
Simplifying your money doesn’t mean being a scrooge! It allows you to take a look at where you are, and where you want to be. It creates space to dive into what’s important to you and to rid those social constructs that we’ve been led to believe are the be all and end all.
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Like me, you’re probably a busy mum – juggling kids, activities, household chores, meals, maybe work too. Often it feels like my week gets away from me before it even starts (let’s be real, half the time I don’t even know what day it is). I know that when I’m on my game – my week runs smoothly (which is a better outcome for everyone in the family lol). How do I ensure that? It comes down to getting organised; how to organise yourself in order to simplify the week ahead.
Today’s lifestyle urges for busy.It urges for better. Pinterest and Instagram show these amazingly executed birthday parties, outings and homes. What do you remember from your childhood? None of the above I would imagine. Because you and I grew up in the time of simple. And, there is magic in a simple childhood. Read on for more.
When you decide you want to simplify your life – cull the excess and live a less complicated life – it’s easy to overlook the many ways to do this. Taking a minimalist approach to food and eating simple is one of the quickest ways to trim the fat. Here are 8 effective ways to simplify your food and eat more simple!
I am all about the simple life. But what does this really mean? No, it’s not just about slower living, or eating healthy, or getting rid of our stuff. Simple living is taking a step back and looking at all aspects of your lifestyle and considering how you can make them easier. More simple. It is in our nature to over complicate life – and one underlying theme is one thing: money. But money can be simple too. Click through to read the best 10 habits to change in order to simplify your money.
I think it’s safe to say that 2020 has been a bit of a whack year… Like, does it even count as a year? But now we’re nearly in June, and I’m feeling the need for a reset. The whole Covid debacle is calming down (here in NZ) and things are starting to get back to normal. We are still wanting to move, Hubby is still jobless and we have baby 3 due any day. To really make the most of the rest of the year I want to reset, clear out and be ready to start fresh! Read through for a complete guide to resetting life + subscribe for a 30 day challenge!
Simple living, simplifying your life, minimalism have been buzz words for a while now, especially with the popularity of Marie Kondo. Many of us have taken on the concept of simplifying life through decluttering our home – but what if I told you that simplifying you life is more than just throwing out your shit? You can clean and clear and organise til the cows come home, but will that really change anything? Will it leave you less stressed? Maybe, as it’s pretty to look at lol. Will it be a magical cure to your house staying nice and tidy? Probably not, as you / who you live with will buy more shit to replace the shit you threw out… Read on to learn why simplifying your life is a holistic approach – it is way more than simply throwing out your crap.
Simplify Your Life! Does motherhood leave you feeling burnt out and overwhelmed? The world we live in today demands so much from us as mothers. Instead of finding ways to work smarter, I chose the opposite – get rid of the shit that wasn’t important – allowing me to live a more simple, minimal lifestyle. Here are 12 of the best tips I picked up along the way.
We’ve been that typical family – overrun and overwhelmed with expectations and activities. Once we cleared the calendar, invited in some blank space to our lives, and found our family rhythm things got a lot easier! Read on to find out how we Discovered the Magic of a Family Rhythm.